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Emotional" intelligence" is what interests
Gabriele Frohlich these days, the connection between the brain and the
heart.
As a medical doctor, she studied physiology; as a therapist she studied
the psyche, and she has now come to believe that emotional intelligence
is the road not only to individual healing, but that it has the power
to effect changes on a global level.
As a child, Gabriele wanted to be a missionary; as a teenager, a doctor
working in Third world countries.
She trained at FU Medical School in Berlin but rapidly became
disillusioned with the approach she was expected to adopt.
"The system did not cater to the whole person", says Frohlich. "I
sensed that what we had been taught and were expected to apply was
inappropriate and unsatisfactory."
She recounts how one day, working in the emergency department of a
hospital, a patient was brought in with extremely high blood pressure,
already on three different types of blood pressure medication.
"When I suggested that the nature of the problem might be in the
emotional arena, the patient competely broke down and began to cry. I
remember the frustration of being in a set-up where I had only three
more minutes to deal with the patient. A person is so much more than
just a body with organs to be fixed."
Disillusionment propelled her into psychotherapy.
She trained in a wide range of therapeutic approaches,including
transactional analysis, gestalt therapy, breathwork, neurolinguistic
programming and hypnosis.
Frohlich found working as a therapist much more satisfactory, but she
began to question the relevance of dealing with individuals from a
privileged Western background. "I have come to the realisation that
what happens to individuals within themselves is actually the exact
equivalent, a microcosm, of what happens on a global or macroscopic
level," she explains.
"In the West, we have created, collectively, a lifestyle and a
political and economic climate that is based on fear, from the combined
pool of fear-based attitudes. These attitudes result from blockages
within the individual; internal conflicts, which in turn are the result
of unresolved childhood issues and cultural conditioning".
Frohlich sees economic woes as the outcome of fear- based competitve
attitudes.
"Businesses and nations are constantly competing to be one step ahead
of their neighbours, rather than engaging in an exchange based on trust
in universal forces," she says.
It is our ingrained, fear-based attitudes and lifestyles that are
actually creating the disparity in wealth between nations, and the
imbalances in consumption of the world's resources."
Frohlich says that working with emotional intelligence not only helps
individuals to integrate physical, emotional, mental and spiritual
levels, but will ultimately assist the balancing out on a global level.
Frohlich often works with the archetype of the inner child that still
lives within every adult. Joy, spontaneity, creativity and life-force
are its hallmarks, and its shadow aspects are suppressed emotions:
anger, sadness and fear.The suppression of the inner child energy is
usually subconscious, from a time when it was not safe to feel those
feelings," according to Frohlich.
"In adult life, people tend to recreate situations similar to the ones
they lived through in childhood. They will repeatedly subconsciously
recreate an undesirable scenario and that's the clue that there is
something there they are not aware of."
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Frohlich describes her own childhood in Germany as
"complex" and
says it accounts for the direction of her life so far. She lost her own
mother at birth and was brought up by a part-Jewish stepmother, who had
escaped the fate of so many Jews living in Germany during World War II.
"In my late teens and early 20s, I lived in Israel for three years. I
was magically drawn to the Jewish theme, not realising then it was to
do with my part-Jewish stepmother. As a German by birth, I was carrying
the baggage of Nazi Germany and the" dark era". Because of the
Jewish/Nazi history and the conflict between my own ancestral past and
my upbringing, I find myself very drawn to conflict situations
involving ethnic minorities".
In recent years Frohlich has been traveling on workshop and training
tours across Australia as well as working in drug and alcohol
counseling. She has also conducted training sessions for health
professionals, including counselors involved with aboriginal health,
and worked as a government consultant on stress -related issues for
management and employees.
In one of her workshops, Frohlich helped to resolve a battle between an
Aborigine and a European for the custody of a part-Aboriginal child.
Applying the tools of emotional intelligence to this situation provided
the resolution that months of litigation had failed to deliver.
The natural result of emotional intelligence is a spiritual perspective
on life, an acceptance that there is something beyond the individual's
own resources. " The experience of a higher power moves people out of
their limited perspective through opening up to an expanded perspective
that transcends the individual human experience, " she says.
Childhood trauma leaves people with the subconscious belief that they
are victims, and unhealed emotional trauma often affects the physical
body. "The expression of emotions that were blocked never killed
anybody, but their continued suppression certainly can!" she exclaims.
With the release of suppressed emotional energy, powerful healing can
occur. "According to the latest neurophysiological research, when this
is achieved, there is a corresponding "rewiring" of the brain and new
neural pathways are actually formed.
Emotional intelligence is the direction of psychological education for
the future, as opposed to therapy that is often understood as
"something having gone wrong" says Frohlich. "The new approach is
moving toward the acceptance of one's life as it presents itself.
Things no longer have gone wrong, they simply are.
"Emotional intelligence is communication that goes beyond communication
skills. You can teach communication skills and leave the heart out of
it, but you cannot practice emotional intelligence without the heart".
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